Take the photos with your little ones
Time is a thief and isn’t slowing down. Take the photos because you won’t get these moments back. We recently just had our family photos done, and while it can be stressful, I never look back and regret getting our photos taken. It’s a way to freeze time and have a tangible reminder of that special bond between you and your kids. And trust me, these are memories that you and your family will treasure for years to come. Since we’ve done a number of family photos since both my kids were born, here are some tips I’ve found are helpful to make it a fun and stress-free experience where you don’t feel like pulling your hair out :)
First and foremost, don’t have any expectations. Embrace the chaos and just roll with it. I always feel like I put so much pressure on myself to make sure everyone is smiling, looking at the camera, etc. I’ve learned that most likely that won’t be the case and to let these unrealistic expectations go. Getting photos taken is truly about capturing your family in the moment. Crying faces and all!
Be patient. Blake can be so unpredictable at times (toddler life!) so I’ve learned to just be flexible and go with the flow. His best moments have been captured when he’s simply being himself. For Blaire’s first birthday photoshoot, the cutest moments were captured when they both were eating her cake. It was truly like we were capturing them in their daily lives. He was so happy and himself and that brought out Blaire’s sweet smile. It wasn’t like we were forcing something to be. Most likely, these will be my favorite photos because it was my kids being themselves.
Pack everything the night before. Trust me, I’ve been there where I think I can just get everything and everyone ready morning of and it’s been a fail every time. Packing everyone’s outfits, bottles, toys, snacks, you name it the night before is key. This way you aren’t running around frantically morning of. I also sleep better at night knowing that everyone is all ready to go in the morning.
Lastly, show up as you would any other day. For some of my first family photos we had done, I styled my hair a different way. It wasn’t me and I wish I would’ve worn my hair like I usually do. I also like to wear outfits I’ve worn before that way I know how they are photographed and something I’m comfortable in (what I wore!). I try to wear earthy tones or all black because they photograph the best in my opinion.
Even though it can be stressful, if you can take the photos do it! You’ll never regret having photos to look back on and they will be a cherished reminder for generations to come. I always say go in with a positive attitude and let your photographer let the magic unfold. Nine times out of ten if you have no expectations and a good attitude, everything usually works out better for everyone!
